Truth be told PUA-ing can definitely be a scummy way of life too. And it’s true not everything they write in their books works. Or rather… to me… not everything they write/teach feels like it is worth doing.
I definitely do not like how PUA’s usually try to cordon off the experience… The whole “Be with her for the fun you can bring and just avoid getting involved in solving her actual problems, and cut her off when she tries to bring these up.”
That said my point about downloadable simulation still holds true… Incels or Incel-ables have many outlets for what they need.
And the whole point of the escorts/prostitution/lap dances industry… is not just sex… These places and professionals, when they cater to men, are not just selling sex. They sell, as one owner of such establishment shared with me, they sell the fantasy that the customer is a “Chad”.
Which is what these guys want/need. That industry is made for them.